I’m sure in this big world of ours, you encounter many men who try and talk to you. Why? Because you’re fabulous, girl, that’s why! And as nice as it can be to meet and engage in conversation with an interesting man, these days you have to go through your share of hot messes to meet said interesting fellow. I guess that’s what makes dating interesting? (NOT.) But if you encounter these kinds of guys in your everyday movements, no matter how long it has been since you’ve been wooed by a man (aka, you’re at a desperate point), do NOT, entertain them. Just run, preferably in the opposite direction. –
The Smoocher
Ever been walking down the street minding your business, and heard the sounds of a man’s chapped lips coming together to get your attention? If you have, you probably know how annoying and degrading that sound of a man sucking in air is in your ear. If a man can’t open his mouth and use syllables and words, he’s definitely not serious, nor worth stopping for. Keep those feet shuffling and play as crazy as possible.
The Guy Who Wants to Be Your “Friend” So Bad
It’s one thing to pursue a person not knowing up front what their relationship status is, but once you know, any person should be mature enough to know when to step off if that individual has got a significant other. Even if they’re lying about it to be left alone. There’s nothing worse than telling a guy you have a boyfriend, hoping his pursuit of you will stop, only to have him bog you down with lines about how you should take his number so you can call him about, and I quote: “Things you can’t talk to your man about.” What? That thirsty-ness to get in a woman’s life by any means necessary is not a good look. Tell him thanks, but no thanks.
The Scratcher
This is just common sense, but you should run in the opposite direction from ANYONE who scratches themselves too much, especially a guy. Scratching your head a lot or your arms is one thing, but we all know what area they’re looking to find relief in, and that’s not Hot to see. Not only is a man scratching himself down there in public unsanitary, it implies many things: he’s dirty, he’s got an STD, or he just really has no home training. Just as a man wouldn’t want to see a woman relieve her lower regions in public and then try to be all up on him, we’re not trying to have the same happen to us.
The Non-Helpful Mug
A non-chivalrous guy is not attractive. I’ve said this before, and I’ll say it again. But a guy that wouldn’t even hold the door open for you doesn’t get the right to wait for you to struggle through the same door and then try to “holla” at you. If a guy can’t show common courtesy, or as I’ve heard, he doesn’t feel you “deserved” to have the door opened or held for you, he doesn’t deserve the time of day either.
The Late Night Body Snatcher
You know the one. You’ll be walking down the street on your way back to your apartment, only to have a guy come out of the wall (not literally) on some The Wiz type stuff trying to talk to you. Never mind the fact that he really can’t see you what you look like. So if he’s asking for your number after two seconds of talking to you–which, may I add, consisted of “How you doing?” and “I want to get to know you better”–chances are, if you were to give it, you’d only hear from him real late at night (booty call characteristics) and you will probably hear from him within minutes of your first meeting. Run.
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