Do you believe that, at first glance, harmless habits can make people lonely and prevent them from getting married? I can say with confidence that they can.
When I worked as a psychologist, I dealt with various problems of my patients. In most cases, the reasons of their life troubles were their habits and fears.
Human habits can exert a big negative influence on the quality of life and make us stray from the right path.
Itusually happens when people refuse to be awake of their faults and continue sticking to their guns. Unfortunately, they tend to blame others for their unhappiness. This approach will never help you break the vicious circle and overcome your laziness, because bad habits gradually become a significant part of your lifestyle.
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Marriage is an extremely important decision in the life of every person. Even highly successful and healthy people often cannot find a real love and get married, because it’s hard to make a right decision in this complicated and artificial world. If absolutely no one wants to get married with you, then the root of the problem lies in the depth of your subconsiousness. It’s high time to plunge into your subconscious mind to find the reasons that poison
your love relationship and make you ‘forever alone.’ It’s necessary to grasp the importance of this issue and dedicate enough time to self-improvement.
At first, you should discover the nature of your inner
world and weigh all pros and cons of your character. If negative traits and habits are predominant, you shouldn’t surrender to despair, because human mind is powerful and limitless. I’m sure that everyone can break harmless habits and change their private life for the better. The main thing is to be open to change and don’t fear to fight your inner demons. I hope this article will open your eyes to common habits that make people ‘forever alone
1. They’re afraid of reality
I think that people who’re afraid of reality will never get married if they do nothing to overcome this fear. It’s been proved that every human being is afraid of reality in a varying degree and it’s absolutely normal, because fear is a natural response to danger. But when these fears and deep-seated phobias take over, people become unable to take risks and responsibilities. A bit later these too sensitive and emotional personalities become the victims of their active imagination. I think that this weakness should be eliminated at earliest convenience. Every woman yearns to get married with emotionally strong and self-confident man.
Diffident personalities should once and for all realize that life is a constant struggle. If you want to reach success in either marriage or career, you should be ready to take up the running and face harsh realities of life with you head held high.
2. They prefer to be passive lazybones
In most cases lonely people are passive lazybones. The pursuit of happiness and self-cultivation aren’t their pair of shoes. They don’t try to take the initiative, but want to take the best things from life. If they believe that they’ll eventually get married, then their chances are limited. Nothing in this life happens eventually.
Life is a dynamic thing that requires people to be
extremely active and productive. If you want other
successful people to notice your talents, beauty and the depth of your rich inner world, you should open up and do your best to express yourself. But how can you meet a wonderful partner if you enjoy aimless passive pastime cooped up in your house? I’m sure that every lazybones can become an interesting and attractive person, if they finally get involved in different activities and find friends with common interests.
3. They’re too judgmental
Nowadays many people have incredibly high standards, especially when it comes to personal life and marriage. Sometimes human principles don’t let people think rationally, but provoke them to judge others for their failures and weaknesses. People who don’t take any effort to find a compromise will never get married, because a healthy marriage is always based on mutual understanding and respect. Wise people say that sometimes it’s necessary to keep silent if you’re at odds with your partner. It will help you keep your love relationship healthy and strong.
Furthermore, women should keep in mind that their
habit of blaming their partners for low incomes can
seriously damage man’s self-esteem. As a result, deep- seated contentment in man’s heart can gradually chill the ardor of his love. By all means, try not to offend people around you and you’ll be able to get married in a quite short period of time.
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