Sometimes you may wanna opt out of falling inlovewith somebody for any reason.You can save yourself a lot of heartache, problems and damage to other people’s lives by using these preventive practices.
Avoid Shares Of Personal Information.
This is especially important if the personal information provokes deep feelings in you. This is because bonds start from relating one to the other through empathy.
Tone down your body language.
Make sure you don’t use gestures that express grace, sensuality and charm. Avoid eating and drinking near that person or eating together.
Reduce Time Spent Together
Avoid going out together all the time. If you spend most of the time together, its “not falling inlove” much more difficult.
Make Other Friends
Make new friends you feel attracted to and others who you don’t feel attracted to.
Use the buddy system.
Passion slows down inlovetriangles, so look for someone you like as just a friend to accompany you when you need to talk to that person.
True Life Story About How Not To Falling Love
I recently got a new neighbor. An improvement from the last one I might add. Oh my God this guy is so fine. I immediately wanted to have his children. However the problem is that he’s only staying here until the end of summer. He’s been quite clear on that. He and a friend are going backpacking in Southeast Asia in September.
We have been dating, hanging out, cooking together, going to parties together for 3 weeks now and it’s been so much fun. We’re on the way of becoming an item. The problem is that I’m a little scared. Eventually I think I will fall in love with him real hard. And he’s going to leave and I’m going to stay here with a broken heart. That’s my dilemma. I don’t want that. It’s going to hurt…A LOT. Some people can completely cut those feelings off. How do they do that? Can I just have fun with him over the summer without feeling anything?
My Reply To Her On How To Prevent Herself From Falling In Love
You women are wired differently then men. Its almost impossible for you to not fall in love with a guy you’re banging or at lease hanging out with if he’s attractive and cool. When I was in college (far away from home) I starting dating this girl who had a crush on me and I told her UPFRONT that I will be graduating in about a year and will moving back home so I’m NOT looking for a relationship. She said it was cool because she only wanted to have fun and “date” too. Well, she fell in love and got pi$$ed with me for not feeling the same. Her heart was broken because even though she acknowledged my earlier warning, she couldn’t help it (I know this sounds conceded, but I’m just making a point). The point is, don’t be her. As hard as it may seem, the smart thing to do is stop seeing this guy NOW, because you obviously won’t be able to NOT fall for him.
“A good man is exciting without being reckless… considerate without being boring… macho without being uninteresting… intelligent without being bland… and dominant without being demanding.”
If that sounds like nothing more than an empty cliché to you, use these words on a woman some time… I once sent this exact line to a female friend of mine over instant messenger, and she was about ready to hop on a plane to come see me afterwards.
Even a year later she still brought it up to me… because, as she said, “your words were strong.”
Never underestimate the power of words… and never underestimate the attractiveness of a man who unites both sides of the yin and yang in his personality!
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